Feb. 12 Is the Birthday
of Lincoln & Darwin
Abraham Lincoln and Charles Darwin
were born on the same day, but their lives
had completely different effects.
Whereas Darwin's theory has been used by
atheists to explain away belief in God, the
last act of Congress signed by Abraham
Lincoln before he was shot was to place the
phrase "In God We Trust" on all national
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God tells us in I Corinthians 13:4-8 what
love is like. Here are a few thoughts to
stimulate your further consideration.
1. Love is patient.
We are loving when we are willing to give
time in consideration of someone else or to
math concept yet again.
2. Love is kind.
Sometimes we need to stop and evaluate
is real kindness, or the easy way out, when
we fail to
lovingly confront a problem with a loved one or
discipline our children.
3. Love does not envy.
We might not recognize it as such when we envy
another home schooler who apparently has it all
together when we feel that we do not.
4. Love does not brag.
It is sometimes a fine line between
benefits of home schooling and
5. Love is not arrogant.
This might be a temptation when we are
for our rights or what we think is
6. Love does not act
A test for this one might be: would we act and
talk the same way to our family if a friend were
7. Love does not seek his/her
Selflessness is a true badge of love.
This is not
the world's way, but God will reward us for
8. Love is not easily
If we find ourselves taking everything the
way, it's time to realize that we need love
"to cover a
multitude of sins."
9. Love thinks no evil.
Give others the benefit of the doubt and don't
jump to the worst conclusion. Don't hold a
remember past wrongs.
10. Love does not rejoice in
The failure of public education should make us
sympathize with those harmed, not rejoice
schools are so bad.
11. Love rejoices in the
We should be happy when justice is
12. Love bears and endures all
Yes, life is hard, but love enables us to bear
wrongs against us, even by those we
13. Love believes and hopes all
Oh, the many mothers who have never given
their families, but have prayed and believed,
that they would follow the Lord!
How can you be a truly loving
The Holy Spirit produces love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, and self-control in the lives of
those who abide in Him (Galatians 5:22, 23).
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Words by Frederick M. Lehman,
written in 1917. Public Domain
This song beautifully describes God's love
for you.God's Love Is Unsurpassable.
The love of God
is greater far
Than tongue or pen
can ever tell;
It goes beyond
the highest star,
And reaches to
the lowest hell.
The guilty pair,
bowed down with
God gave His Son
His erring child
And pardoned from
O love of God, how rich and pure!
How measureless and strong!
It shall forevermore endure
The saints' and angels' song.
God's Love Is Unconditional.
When hoary time
shall pass away,
And earthly thrones
and kingdoms fall;
When men who here
refuse to pray,
On rocks and hills
God's love, so sure,
to Adam's race,
and angels' song.
God's Love Is Indescribable.
Could we with ink
the ocean fill,
And were the skies
of parchment made;
Were every stalk
on earth a quill,
And every man
a scribe by trade;
To write the love
of God above
the ocean dry;
Nor could the scroll
contain the whole,
from sky to sky.
Because we have been separated from God by
sin, Jesus Christ died in our place, then
rose to life again. If we trust Him as our
Savior and Lord, He will forgive our sin and
give us eternal life.
"For God so loved the world, that He gave
His only begotten Son, that whoever believes
in Him shall not perish, but have eternal
life." (John 3:16)
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In This Issue
It's All About Love
• Love Who?
• Practical Ways To Show Love
• True Love and Purity
• How To Make Contests a Learning
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It really is all about love. Jesus
gave a summary of all God's commandments
as: 1) Love God with all
your heart, and with all your soul, and with
all your mind, and with all your strength
and 2) Love your neighbor
as yourself (Matthew
22:35-40 and Mark
In this issue we suggest some specific and
practical ways your can show love to those
around you – all year long.
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1. The Lord our God
"You shall love the Lord your God with all
heart, and with all your soul and with all
2. Your Husband/Wife
"The young women to love their husbands .
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ
loved the church and gave Himself up for
Busters. Dr. Willard
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identifies the most common love busters in
(or any relationship) as selfish demands,
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behavior, and dishonesty. In Dr.
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marital conflicts and some of the quickest
Life. This large
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3. Our Children
"The young women . . . to love their
4. Brothers and Sisters in Christ
"A new commandment I give to you, that you
one another, even as I have loved you, that
love one another. By this all men will know
are My disciples, if you have love for one
(John 13:34, 35).
"You shall love your neighbor as
6. The Needy and Unlovely
"If a brother or sister is without
clothing and in
need of daily food, and one of you says to
them, "Go in
peace, be warmed and be filled," and yet you
give them what is necessary for their body,
what use is
that?" (James 2:16).
"If you love those who love you, what
that to you? For even sinners love those who
Find someone that you would not naturally show
love to and do so for the Lord's sake. He
when we were unlovely to Him.
7. Those Who Have Done Us Wrong
"But I say to you who hear, love your
good to those who hate you, bless those who
pray for those who mistreat you" (Luke
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Practical Ways To Show Love
"Little children, let us not love with
word or with
tongue, but in deed and truth" (1 John
Show love (and teach your children to do
so also) in the following ways on Valentine's
Day – and all year long.
Words are a very powerful way to express
The more specific your words, the more
they are. Tell your loved one how much
you love him,
how important he is to you, and how much you
certain of his attributes or actions.
Look for ways to express what is in your
either spoken or written words on a regular
God used words to tell us how much He
loves us. We can use words in prayer
and songs of praise to tell God that we love
A traditional Valentine (or other
occasion) card can be
bought or creatively hand made.
Find detailed instructions to make elegant
using a variety of materials and techniques
Making Inspirations or follow links to
many card making projects at FindHow.com.
Daily Words of Love
Establish the habit of saying something
kind to each
member of your family every day. Maybe
as you are
saying goodnight, you could thank them for
contributions they made to the family that
their acts of thoughtfulness and kindness,
them something you appreciate about
them. This can
become a special time that your family will look
forward to each night and can make a
attitudes and actions within the
Praise to Others
Let your loved ones hear you praising them
A hand-written letter can be (and usually
is) kept and cherished
for life. Write to your husband,
children, and loved
ones to tell them of your love; your hopes,
and prayers for their future; etc.
Phone calls are very inexpensive
now. You can call
a friend across the country and have a
for under $1. Just a short time to
catch up on news
and let your friend know that you are praying
for her and
that you value your friendship can be a
Sharing the Good News of Salvation
If you truly love someone that isn't
saved, you will want to give them the
Gospel. "For I am not ashamed of the
gospel, for it is the power of God for
salvation to everyone who believes" (Romans
tracts and Scripture
portions make an excellent aid in
Time spent together focusing on your loved
his needs, and his interests is a genuine act
Just being together is the best gift you can
those you love.
In your family, this can be made a regular
to drop everything and spend the first 10-15
minutes with your husband when he gets
home or go on a
walk together. Do not monopolize
the time with your
concerns; listen to the report of his day.
• Schedule time
alone, even 5-10 minutes, with each of
your children each day. One
suggestion is to have a
helper with you for each of your tasks
such as cooking,
laundry, errands, etc. Use the time
together to visit, talk
about his interests, but especially to
listen to your child.
a friend or family over for a meal or a
neighbor in for a cup of tea.
• Visit a
shut-in and ask him to share something about
don't forget to spend time with the Lord each
It really is the thought that counts
– your gifts
do not need to be large or expensive to be
valued as a
tangible expression of your affection.
Small purchased or handmade gifts that
thoughtfulness could include flowers, a pen
a hair clip or piece of jewelry, a pot
holder, a tool, a
wallet, an item to add to a favorite
photo, bookmark, handkerchief, favorite food,
Gifts can remind your loved one of your
him as he sees and uses the gift.
For those in real need, a more practical
or substantial gift would be appropriate. "But whoever has the world's goods, and sees
his brother in need and closes his heart
against him, how does the love of God abide
in him?" (1 John 3:17).
4. Acts of Service
Serving the needs of a loved one really
Do one of your loved one's regular chores,
errand, do something he hasn't had time to
do, sew on
a button or mend a garment, notice something
and bring it to him, etc.
Opportunities for service to those outside
your family might include providing a meal,
running errands, doing yard work, or
providing child care for the sick, shut-ins,
busy home-school mothers, etc.
5. Physical Touch
kisses, and other shows of affection are
appropriate for family members.
hand shake or hug for a member of the same gender
is appropriate for others.
The Five Love Languages
Read more about the ways that you can show
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Five Love Languages of Children
Five Love Languages of Teenagers.
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True Love and Purity
This Valentine's Day might be a good
opportunity to talk to
your children about the difference between
real love between a
man and a woman (e.g., unselfishly seeking
the welfare of the
other and committing to life-long marriage)
and the world's use
of the word "love."
Depending on the ages of your children,
you might need to
scale it down for all of them, and then have
a more specific
conversation with your older children.
Do not assume that Christian children,
growing up in a godly
Christian home, know about these issues. You
need to come
straight out and talk about them.
For instance, many or most will agree with
the concept of
keeping themselves pure until marriage, but
what exactly does
that mean to you? To them? And how is that
One of the most basic rules of conduct for
you and your
Never be alone with a member of the
opposite sex unless
you are married to him/her or he/she is part
of your immediate
This rule was common for all decent
people, Christians or
not, in our country until relatively recently
when the practice
of dating became common. This rule:
• Protects you
and another from temptation too great to
• Protects you
from abuse or harm.
• Protects your
reputation from false accusations.
• Provides a
good example so that others may enjoy the
• Three books by
Joshua Harris: Sex
Is Not the Problem (Lust Is): Sexual Purity
in a Lust-Saturated World; I Kissed
Dating Goodbye; and Boy
Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship.
• Series of 10
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S.M. Davis, SolveFamilyProblems.com.
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